Friday 5 October 2018

Let’s collaborate to create new projects and sustainable wealth!



I am freelance entrepreneur into corporate trainings and psychotherapy proposing collaboration with like-minded people which will be mutually beneficial for us.
If you are passionate about transforming individuals to unleash their innate potential as well as yours then, let’s get talking!

Looking for trainers/ business development experts on a profit sharing basis.
On a lookout for potential clients too!

A quick update about myself:
I moved away from my cushy job as an Assistant Vice President- Change Management (transforming processes) to pursue my passion of transforming people. I bring along  work ethics like sincerity, transparency, domain expertise, building and maintaining cordial relationships ,an optimistic attitude and I take responsibility for my actions. I believe that every problem has an embedded solution which needs to be unearthed.
In my initial years, I worked on CRM, lean six sigma, quality circle,5S projects, BPMN and later on levitated towards psychology and psychotherapy. I am a corporate trainer, psychometric assessor, a clinical hypnotherapist and a master NLP practitioner currently pursuing transactional analysis. The reason for venturing into all the stated fields of psychology is ‘cause I strongly believe in holistic value additional and transformation rather than providing just about "lip service". I am an optimistic seeker, an adventurer traversing the deep recesses and dynamics of the human mind for helping individuals lead a happy and stress free life.
My mother is a gifted healer and somewhere I would like to believe that there has been some divine intervention to have been born to such a blessed soul.
When I am not training or teaching or learning, I get into a psychotherapy session. My favourite (so far) type of people have been kids and teenagers as they are curious, non-judgmental, open to new ways of healing to enhance their skills, and above all: Are ready to feel “happy” once more.
That’s about me. I have been as transparent as possible and I have my ex- colleagues as well as my ex- bosses on this platform too. :-)
To know more you may check my blogsite and if you feel we can work together , please send a message in my inbox.Cheers to a good life!

 #training #sustainability #psychology #businessdevelopment #changemanagement #growthmindset #transparency

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Friday 21 September 2018

Kindness is not FREE!

Kindness is not FREE!

Nor are compassion, love, humility, courage amongst others.

Logically speaking, anything that’s free ‘in oneself” should be freely flowing “out of oneself” isn’t it?

So all the goodness stored in us is stuck between the huge boulders of vices such as ego, pride, anger and other stoppers!

A couple of challenges in this process

Challenge #1: I can be kind and loving to 99% of the people, but there are some of them I cannot be kind to, as I cannot get along with them?

Answer : consciously ‘be kind’ to them(physically or mentally)- These are the people who will help you move your boulders!

AND, be kind for NO REASON!  - the question  ‘Why should I?” is a huge stopper!

Challenge #2: I have been abused / criticized and I keep being abused by them. How can I be kind to them?

Answer: You can keep your distance with them, but being kind, loving and nonjudgmental towards them ( in your thoughts) is the key!

A free flowing tap, flows freely for all–irrespective of who it is!

So, would you want to experiment with yourself? Would you want your kindness and love to freely flow through you? Try the below 2 minute activity:

 (TIY) Try it yourself:

1.      Test check if you can be kind to yourself?

a.      Stand in front of a mirror, if you are at work or do not have access to a mirror, then a blank computer screen, or a mobile will help too!

Look into your eyes and say to yourself with a smile “ I love you”-  10 times. (many find it difficult, awkward, embarrassing, silly, funny, useless etc.. These are your defense mechanism at play)

b.     Identify your feelings-If you feel good then go ahead, if not, then keep repeating till you feel comfortable with what you say and then proceed to point c.

c.      Look at your features: your eyes, colour of your eyes, eyelashes( upper as well as lower), eyebrows ,nose, mouth, the corners of your mouth, cheeks, face cut, colour of your skin, hair, forehead and keep saying “ I love you’ to every part of your feature.

(For some, this activity will be a little uncomfortable, but as days go by, you will start to enjoy this shift that’s happening in you).

Just do this for the new few weeks or a couple of months and you will find yourself in a different dimension of maturity!

So final words: NONE of the virtues come FREE: People have worked really effeciently and effectively on themselves (to shift that virtue from a conscious level to an unconscious one) to reach to that level of maturity.

For some it’s an inheritance: A legacy left behind by their nurturers whereas some have embarked on the journey with a purpose of creating a legacy for their descendants.

So, next time when someone is kind/loving/considerate etc.. towards you for no reason: Remember: These are “refined” humans who have worked on themselves to reach that dimension of maturity! Its a blessing to have such refined souls as a part of our journey!

#backtobasics#not a motivational article but a practical reality & necessity#

Tuesday 3 July 2018

What's your Philosophy?


POEM- The Gloworm Effect!

Sometimes we are the givers and sometimes the takers.
Give Selflessly and Accept Graciously!

Be a Beaker of love and light & Be a Seeker of Love and Light!


Poem- Mind Board

Past conditioning leads to present conditions. Be Aware, relook, rework... Mind cleansing is a skill!




Poem-Jack and Jill


 Live beyond your fears!



POEM-Break to Bloom


Face your Fears!

GOAL-TO SET or NOT TO !!


GOAL SETTING! POEM

You don’t need enemies if you find an ally in self doubt,
It will set you up for failure even before your dreams are spelt out,

Never doubt your capability ever,
You are as capable To WIN, As you are capable To NEVER!




POEM-Entitled- AM I?

The Non- Entitled thought and feeling- is Instant Liberation! 
Try it out!!



Work Pressures?? Seriously? Think Again....


It's never about work.You have been skilled academically/technically hence qualified to manage that portfolio. Then what's missing? Learn ....Learn and keep Learning....


Your TRUMP Card


When nothing works... This definitely will!


Monday 2 July 2018

Empath- Are you HIGH?

People say: If you are good, good will come back to you. But some people,however good they are,their life seems to be going around in wheels- Then the only thing left to blame is KARMA..

Actually, these people are extremely HIGH EMPATHS. One way  out is to learn to Be AWARE when your emotional energies are spilling and CURB them.



Leadership


I don't believe in Leaders who buy into the myth that they are supposed to be submissive, subservient and selfless.... If you are a true leader , you ought to be OUT THERE... In a POWER ZONE and obviously Sharing your Power as need be.


Relationship- Made FOR each other OR Made BY each other??

Relationships are like SIP's (Systematic Investment Plan )  . 

I call it Sustained Investment Preference:

Ask Yourself:
1. What do you prefer in your relationship?-Happiness,Compatibility(matching wavelength),Growth(I am refering to mental growth as physical will happen- No choice there :-) or anything that you prefer).

2.Invest in your preference.

3. Be consistent so that the investment will be sustained.



What is devotion?